You know those weekends that pass far too quickly but are filled with lots of happy memories? Yes? Well, this past weekend was one of them! Happy times with my favourite GGs. There were, of course, the usual sibling squabbles and not everyone was exactly delighted when we went out for an exploring walk on Saturday afternoon but it was a happy weekend nonetheless. A weekend balanced with time at home, time outside in the fresh aid and time spent with our church family learning, praising and spending time together.
The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face towards you and give you peace.
As Andrew said those words I thought of my boys and was struck by how that is my prayer for them. In life I want the best for my sons, I want them to be happy, to be content in the careers they choose, to marry and have children, to live full and happy lives but most of all I want them to know the peace of God, to know and understand what God has done for them, to be his children.
Now, when I was thinking all this I had not read the Love Dare for today! Honestly!!
After the calm of the weekend today was one of those days where I got up this morning feeling overwhelmed by the length of the to-do list and the lack of time to complete it. Writing a blog post was one of the things that I thought would get pushed to another day but … well … when I read through Day 33 as I ate my lunch I realised that I had to post today after all.
You see, today’s Dare is entitled Love Blesses and the Scripture reference is, you’ve guessed it, the priestly blessing (also known as the Aaronic Blessing as it was given to Aaron to pass on to the Israelites).
The Dare begins with explaining what a blessing actually is:
‘To bless someone actually means ‘to speak well of’. It’s a parent using their God-given authority to verbally affirm their children for who they are, while also encouraging and inspiring them towards future success.’ (Love Dare for Parents, Kendrick, B&H Publishing Group, 2013, p161).
I often speak of my sons as being gifts from God, blessings that he has given me. But reading the definition from the Love Dare seemed different so I googled the word ‘blessing’ to find out more.
Good old Google gave me a few different definitions including the one above but also, ‘a beneficial thing for which one is grateful’! Phew!
So, the dare for today is write a blessing for each of the Junior GGs thinking of now and looking ahead.
Our meal is going to be late this evening but I’ve written out the blessings and will read them to the boys (if they haven’t eaten the table first because I’ve dilly dallied so long … boys are ALWAYS hungry!) … and here they are:
Son No1 – You are so special, your birth turned me into a Mum and you bear all my parenting mistakes with a hug and a kiss. You make people smile and feel welcome … you never pass anyone you know, whether old or young, teacher or pupil, without greeting them and, if you can, you always use someone’s name … that makes people feel loved. You have a real talent when it comes to music, your ability to play by ear amazes me and it surprises me sometimes that you don’t realise just how good you are. I truly believe that your future lies within the music industry in some way if that is the path you choose to take.
Son No2 – My precious boy. You have an infectious laugh and it is one of the sweetest sounds to hear you laughing and chuckling as you watch something or talk with one of your brothers. Life is so hard for you in so many ways but you are a warrior, you may worry but you overcome far more obstacles that you ever let beat you. I love how fascinated you are with food. I love that you will experiment and try new foods and that you like to cook whenever you have the opportunity. My clever son, you can do whatever you set your mind to, even if your route may be a little bit different to that of some other people. Be yourself, shine as you are.
Son No3 – My star. Your caring heart is beautiful to watch. It fills me with delight to see you working out ideas to make life easier for other people. Your compassion when gathering together items for the shoebox appeal was heart-melting. You have a real gift for drama despite your reluctance to show it … you have a talent for mimicking accents and copying how people speak and have an air of comedy about you. I love to curl up and read stories with you. The world is out there waiting for you … I honestly believe you are capable of anything you put your mind to! Keep smiling because seeing your smile can cheer me up on the hardest day.
My sons, I give thanks to God every day for you. I thank him for giving me the privilege of being your mum, for having the joy (yes, even on those really awful days) of parenting you and teaching you. I’m thankful for the family we are … you, me, Dad … we are all meant to be together, we are Team GG. I pray for each one of you every day and my heart’s desire is that each one of you comes to love God and lives your life doing what he wants you to do. I love you.